Tuesday, March 23, 2010

About chains.

A couple of weeks ago, I was mad. REALLY mad. 


First of all disappointed how some people expect or still believe women are "lower" than men. Frikin dinosaurs! That we are to be feminine, marry, breed babies ... and transform our life into: 6AM wake up, make breakfast for kids & husband, wake them up, get them ready, feed them, make sure they take their lunch and have everything that they might possibly need for the day. Later this amazing woman heads to work or stays at home cleaning. Once its time for the kids to come home she makes sure they are home, fed and start up their homework. Later come back from work prepare dinner. Feed everyone. Finish cleaning the house. Put everyone to sleep. OMGSH what a hassle! or am I crazy? ...Like when does she have time for herself?... for enjoying quiet time? I mean even if she doesn't have a job to attend to, she has her house to look after and have it be squeeky clean?.. no vacations, no weekends. Geez. Women are to be quiet, still, sweet, show no madness/rudeness.. ETC! 
Got me raging mad. 




Why? Well, it's a chain I wish to break. Sure I'd like to marry, but it's not an obligation... I could opt for being single all my life. Kids, sure. But something KEY here would be the husband. This guy he ought to be considerate of this, we both live in the house, we both are responsible for the kids, both of us deserve alone time, both of us have an opinion... Really just a considerate relationship.


... just needed to express that.  I'm done. 







2 comments:

  1. haha! hans is gonna have to learn how to cook!

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  2. Good thing he already knows ;)

    ...He's better than me

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