Tuesday, March 23, 2010

About chains.

A couple of weeks ago, I was mad. REALLY mad. 


First of all disappointed how some people expect or still believe women are "lower" than men. Frikin dinosaurs! That we are to be feminine, marry, breed babies ... and transform our life into: 6AM wake up, make breakfast for kids & husband, wake them up, get them ready, feed them, make sure they take their lunch and have everything that they might possibly need for the day. Later this amazing woman heads to work or stays at home cleaning. Once its time for the kids to come home she makes sure they are home, fed and start up their homework. Later come back from work prepare dinner. Feed everyone. Finish cleaning the house. Put everyone to sleep. OMGSH what a hassle! or am I crazy? ...Like when does she have time for herself?... for enjoying quiet time? I mean even if she doesn't have a job to attend to, she has her house to look after and have it be squeeky clean?.. no vacations, no weekends. Geez. Women are to be quiet, still, sweet, show no madness/rudeness.. ETC! 
Got me raging mad. 




Why? Well, it's a chain I wish to break. Sure I'd like to marry, but it's not an obligation... I could opt for being single all my life. Kids, sure. But something KEY here would be the husband. This guy he ought to be considerate of this, we both live in the house, we both are responsible for the kids, both of us deserve alone time, both of us have an opinion... Really just a considerate relationship.


... just needed to express that.  I'm done. 







Tuesday, March 9, 2010

All the best people are mad&bonkers

Yes, taken from the new film Alice and Wonderland by Tim Burton. I went to see it this weekend with my boyfriend, thought we would have to make the longest line ever but since it was early, we didn't!... 






Anyways, several things this week have got me thinking about "All the best people are mad and bonkers." Personally I find it to be the most truthful thing ever, cuz how I enjoy talking to people with interesting points of views, how I love hearing someone ramble about the wildest things... it's weird I guess, but in a way... isn't life about being mad/crazy? Doing all we can? ...We live once, to hopefully don't get to the end of it and think "hmm... how come I never learned Hawaiian?... how come I never slept on the beach?"... So in my thoughts, I was reveled why the hell not dare!... be the bonkers fellows  who are happy :) 


... This has gotten me motivated, to do & learn all- that I have the opportunity to do, even if it sounds useless, I'm sure the experience will bring joy.


So here's my message going into the endless world of internet: Dare to be the person you want to be, dare to do the things that make you happy, dare, dare...
Dare one thousand million infinity times dare to be "bonkers", to be YOU. Doesn't matter if you are twelve or ninety five... you're still allowed to be happy.